Have your daughter pick two or three special friends for this party. Pick all the girls up, and drive them to their favorite mall. Give each girl $20, or an amount your comfortable with, and set them free in the mall for two hours to shop and hang out. Have the girls meet you at your daughter's favorite restaurant for a special birthday lunch, and then allow them to choose a movie, or spend some time in the arcade. If you're feeling especially geneourous, you can take all the girls to the nail salon for a manicure or pedicure.