Playing Outside – The New Rules

Whether the season is summer, winter, autumn, or spring outdoor play is an important part of childhood. Your children need to get outside and connect with their bodies and their world as much as they need to develop their minds in school. But unlike schoolwork, outdoor play can present physical dangers that you may find downright disturbing.

Children can easily fall and hurt themselves, play dangerous games that result in harm to others, or even become targets for adult predators outside. So how can you allow your children the outdoor exercise they need without either stifling them or signing them up for an unplanned trip to the emergency room?

Keep an Eye on Things

There are a few simple rules that every parent and their children should follow when it comes to outdoor play. These rules will make an enjoyable experience possible without exposing your child to any untoward dangers. The most important rule, of course, is that of adult supervision. If an adult is on hand to monitor the situation and deal with potential dangers as they crop up, then your child will be much less likely to come away from the back yard or the playground with a new scar to add to their growing collection.

Parental supervision can prevent a game from becoming dangerous or getting out of hand, it can put you on the scene of a potential accident to either stop it from occurring or mitigate the damage, and it sends the message to other adults that your child is protected rather than vulnerable. All of these are important things.

Make Safety Check

Past the point of parental supervision, the rules for safe outdoor play depend in large measure upon the location and type of play as well as the ages of the children involved. If your child is playing in your yard or neighborhood then the rules are different than if they are at a playground. Likewise, they change if the child is eight as opposed to four.

In any case, however it is important to be sure that the area your child is playing in physically safe and age appropriate. For example, on a playground, you will want to check out the area and the equipment to make sure that your child will be safe on it. This means looking for soft or shock absorbing ground coverings like bark dust or rubber in order to break inevitable falls. It means looking for signs of dangerous wear or breakage on the equipment itself. In a yard, it might mean checking to determine that nothing dangerous has been left out or that the gate is shut.

All of these considerations will help you to decrease the chances of your children hurting themselves while playing outside. Finally, make sure that when your children are ready to play that they keep it age appropriate. Don't let a child that is too small play on an older child's toy or playground equipment that they simply do not have the skills and strength to manage yet.

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